xsk: simplified umem setup

As suggested by Daniel Borkmann, the umem setup code was a too
defensive and complex. Here, we reduce the number of checks. Also, the
memory pinning is now folded into the umem creation, and we do correct
locking.

Signed-off-by: Björn Töpel <bjorn.topel@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Daniel Borkmann <daniel@iogearbox.net>