md/raid10: convert resync_lock to use seqlock

Currently, wait_barrier() will hold 'resync_lock' to read 'conf->barrier',
and io can't be dispatched until 'barrier' is dropped.

Since holding the 'barrier' is not common, convert 'resync_lock' to use
seqlock so that holding lock can be avoided in fast path.

Signed-off-by: Yu Kuai <yukuai3@huawei.com>
Reviewed-and-Tested-by: Logan Gunthorpe <logang@deltatee.com>
Signed-off-by: Song Liu <song@kernel.org>