ovl: resolve more conflicting mount options

Similar to the way that a conflict between metacopy=on,redirect_dir=off is
resolved, also resolve conflicts between nfs_export=on,index=off and
nfs_export=on,metacopy=on.

An explicit mount option wins over a default config value.  Both explicit
mount options result in an error.

Without this change the xfstests group overlay/exportfs are skipped if
metacopy is enabled by default.

Reported-by: Chengguang Xu <cgxu519@mykernel.net>
Signed-off-by: Amir Goldstein <amir73il@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: Miklos Szeredi <mszeredi@redhat.com>