drm/panthor: Keep a ref to the VM at the panthor_kernel_bo level

Avoids use-after-free situations when panthor_fw_unplug() is called
and the kernel BO was mapped to the FW VM.

Signed-off-by: Boris Brezillon <boris.brezillon@collabora.com>
Reviewed-by: Steven Price <steven.price@arm.com>
Reviewed-by: Liviu Dudau <liviu.dudau@arm.com>
Link: https://patchwork.freedesktop.org/patch/msgid/20240502183813.1612017-3-boris.brezillon@collabora.com