udp: re-score reuseport groups when connected sockets are present

Contrary to TCP, UDP reuseport groups can contain TCP_ESTABLISHED
sockets. To support these properly we remember whether a group has
a connected socket and skip the fast reuseport early-return. In
effect we continue scoring all reuseport sockets and then choose the
one with the highest score.

The current code fails to re-calculate the score for the result of
lookup_reuseport. According to Kuniyuki Iwashima:

    1) SO_INCOMING_CPU is set
       -> selected sk might have +1 score

    2) BPF prog returns ESTABLISHED and/or SO_INCOMING_CPU sk
       -> selected sk will have more than 8

  Using the old score could trigger more lookups depending on the
  order that sockets are created.

    sk -> sk (SO_INCOMING_CPU) -> sk (ESTABLISHED)
    |     |
    `-> select the next SO_INCOMING_CPU sk
          |
          `-> select itself (We should save this lookup)

Fixes: efc6b6f6 ("udp: Improve load balancing for SO_REUSEPORT.")
Reviewed-by: Kuniyuki Iwashima <kuniyu@amazon.com>
Signed-off-by: Lorenz Bauer <lmb@isovalent.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20230720-so-reuseport-v6-1-7021b683cdae@isovalent.com


Signed-off-by: Martin KaFai Lau <martin.lau@kernel.org>