x86, apic: untangle the send_IPI_*() jungle

Our send_IPI_*() methods and definitions are a twisted mess: the same
symbol is defined to different things depending on .config details,
in a non-transparent way.

 - spread out the quirks into separately named per apic driver methods

 - prefix the standard PC methods with default_

 - get rid of wrapper macro obfuscation

 - clean up various details

Signed-off-by: Ingo Molnar <mingo@elte.hu>