btrfs: merge verify_parent_transid and btrfs_buffer_uptodate

verify_parent_transid is only called by btrfs_buffer_uptodate, which
confusingly inverts the return value.  Merge the two functions and
reflow the parent_transid so that error handling is in a branch.

Reviewed-by: Johannes Thumshirn <johannes.thumshirn@wdc.com>
Reviewed-by: Qu Wenruo <wqu@suse.com>
Reviewed-by: Josef Bacik <josef@toxicpanda.com>
Signed-off-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Reviewed-by: David Sterba <dsterba@suse.com>
Signed-off-by: David Sterba <dsterba@suse.com>