tcp: set TCP_USER_TIMEOUT locklessly

icsk->icsk_user_timeout can be set locklessly,
if all read sides use READ_ONCE().

Signed-off-by: Eric Dumazet <edumazet@google.com>
Acked-by: Soheil Hassas Yeganeh <soheil@google.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>