tcp: set TCP_SYNCNT locklessly

icsk->icsk_syn_retries can safely be set without locking the socket.

We have to add READ_ONCE() annotations in tcp_fastopen_synack_timer()
and tcp_write_timeout().

Signed-off-by: Eric Dumazet <edumazet@google.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>