KVM: Move setting of memslot into helper routine

Split out the core functionality of setting a memslot into a separate
helper in preparation for moving memslot deletion into its own routine.

Tested-by: Christoffer Dall <christoffer.dall@arm.com>
Reviewed-by: Philippe Mathieu-Daudé <f4bug@amsat.org>
Reviewed-by: Peter Xu <peterx@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Sean Christopherson <sean.j.christopherson@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Paolo Bonzini <pbonzini@redhat.com>