io_uring/rsrc: use non-pcpu refcounts for nodes

One problem with the current rsrc infra is that often updates will
generates lots of rsrc nodes, each carry pcpu refs. That takes quite a
lot of memory, especially if there is a stall, and takes lots of CPU
cycles. Only pcpu allocations takes >50 of CPU with a naive benchmark
updating files in a loop.

Replace pcpu refs with normal refcounting. There is already a hot path
avoiding atomics / refs, but following patches will further improve it.

Signed-off-by: Pavel Begunkov <asml.silence@gmail.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/e9ed8a9457b331a26555ff9443afc64cdaab7247.1680576071.git.asml.silence@gmail.com
Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>