net/mlx5: mlx5_ifc updates for flex parser

Added the required definitions for supporting more protocols by flex parsers
(GTP-U, Geneve TLV options), and for using the right flex parser that was
configured for this protocol.

Signed-off-by: Yevgeny Kliteynik <kliteyn@nvidia.com>
Signed-off-by: Saeed Mahameed <saeedm@nvidia.com>