drm/i915: Individual request cancellation

Currently, we cancel outstanding requests within a context when the
context is closed. We may also want to cancel individual requests using
the same graceful preemption mechanism.

v2 (Tvrtko):
 * Cancel waiters carefully considering no timeline lock and RCU.
 * Fixed selftests.

v3 (Tvrtko):
 * Remove error propagation to waiters for now.

v4 (Tvrtko):
 * Rebase for extracted i915_request_active_engine. (Matt)

Signed-off-by: Chris Wilson <chris@chris-wilson.co.uk>
Signed-off-by: Tvrtko Ursulin <tvrtko.ursulin@intel.com>
Reviewed-by: Matthew Auld <matthew.auld@intel.com>
[danvet: Resolve conflict because intel_engine_flush_scheduler is
still called intel_engine_flush_submission]
Signed-off-by: Daniel Vetter <daniel.vetter@ffwll.ch>
Link: https://patchwork.freedesktop.org/patch/msgid/20210324121335.2307063-3-tvrtko.ursulin@linux.intel.com