SUNRPC: change sp_nrthreads to atomic_t

Using an atomic_t avoids the need to take a spinlock (which can soon be
removed).

Choosing a thread to kill needs to be careful as we cannot set the "die
now" bit atomically with the test on the count.  Instead we temporarily
increase the count.

Signed-off-by: NeilBrown <neilb@suse.de>
Signed-off-by: Chuck Lever <chuck.lever@oracle.com>