net/handshake: Enable the SNI extension to work properly

Enable the upper layer protocol to specify the SNI peername. This
avoids the need for tlshd to use a DNS lookup, which can return a
hostname that doesn't match the incoming certificate's SubjectName.

Fixes: 2fd55320

 ("net/handshake: Add a kernel API for requesting a TLSv1.3 handshake")
Reviewed-by: Simon Horman <simon.horman@corigine.com>
Signed-off-by: Chuck Lever <chuck.lever@oracle.com>
Signed-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>