nbd: freeze the queue for queue limits updates

nbd currently updates the logical and physical block sizes as well
as the discard_sectors on a live queue.  Freeze the queue first to
make sure there are not commands in flight that can see torn or
inconsistent limits.

Signed-off-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20240229143846.1047223-3-hch@lst.de


Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>