nbd: don't clear discard_sectors in nbd_config_put

nbd_config_put currently clears discard_sectors when unusing a device.
This is pretty odd behavior and different from the sector size
configuration which is simply left in places and then reconfigured when
nbd_set_size is as part of configuring the device.  Change nbd_set_size
to clear discard_sectors if discard is not supported so that all the
queue limits changes are handled in one place.

Signed-off-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20240229143846.1047223-2-hch@lst.de


Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>