Btrfs: do not BUG_ON on aborted situation

Btrfs balance can easily hit BUG_ON in these places, but we want
to it bail out gracefully after we force the whole filesystem to
readonly.  So we use btrfs_std_error hook in place of BUG_ON.

Signed-off-by: Liu Bo <bo.li.liu@oracle.com>
Signed-off-by: Josef Bacik <jbacik@fusionio.com>