HID: bpf jmp table: simplify the logic of cleaning up programs

Kind of a hack, but works for now:

Instead of listening for any close of eBPF program, we now
decrement the refcount when we insert it in our internal
map of fd progs.

This is safe to do because:
- we listen to any call of destructor of programs
- when a program is being destroyed, we disable it by removing
  it from any RCU list used by any HID device (so it will never
  be called)
- we then trigger a job to cleanup the prog fd map, but we overwrite
  the removal of the elements to not do anything on the programs, just
  remove the allocated space

This is better than previously because we can remove the map of known
programs and their usage count. We now rely on the refcount of
bpf, which has greater chances of being accurate.

Signed-off-by: Benjamin Tissoires <benjamin.tissoires@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Jiri Kosina <jkosina@suse.cz>