btrfs: backref: rename and move remove_backref_node()

Also add comment explaining the cleanup progress, to differ it from
btrfs_backref_drop_node().

Signed-off-by: Qu Wenruo <wqu@suse.com>
Reviewed-by: David Sterba <dsterba@suse.com>
Signed-off-by: David Sterba <dsterba@suse.com>