btrfs: backref: rename and move drop_backref_node()

With extra comment for drop_backref_node() as it has some similarity
with remove_backref_node(), thus we need extra comment explaining the
difference.

Signed-off-by: Qu Wenruo <wqu@suse.com>
Reviewed-by: David Sterba <dsterba@suse.com>
Signed-off-by: David Sterba <dsterba@suse.com>