virtio: revert host notifiers to old semantics

The host notifier rework tried both to unify host notifiers across
transports and plug a possible hole during host notifier
re-assignment. Unfortunately, this meant a change in semantics that
breaks vhost and iSCSI+dataplane.

As the minimal fix, keep the common host notifier code but revert
to the old semantics so that we have time to figure out the proper
fix.

Fixes: 6798e245 ("virtio-bus: common ioeventfd infrastructure")
Reported-by: Peter Lieven <pl@kamp.de>
Reported-by: Jason Wang <jasowang@redhat.com>
Reported-by: Marc-André Lureau <marcandre.lureau@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: Cornelia Huck <cornelia.huck@de.ibm.com>
Reviewed-by: Michael S. Tsirkin <mst@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Michael S. Tsirkin <mst@redhat.com>
Tested-by: Marc-André Lureau <marcandre.lureau@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Jason Wang <jasowang@redhat.com>
Tested-by: Jason Wang <jasowang@redhat.com>
Tested-by: Peter Lieven <pl@kamp.de>