virtio-bus: common ioeventfd infrastructure

Introduce a set of ioeventfd callbacks on the virtio-bus level
that can be implemented by the individual transports. At the
virtio-bus level, do common handling for host notifiers (which
is actually most of it).

Two things of note:
- When setting the host notifier, we only switch from/to the
  generic ioeventfd handler. This fixes a latent bug where we
  had no ioeventfd assigned for a certain window.
- We always iterate over all possible virtio queues, even though
  ccw (currently) has a lower limit. It does not really matter
  here.

Signed-off-by: Cornelia Huck <cornelia.huck@de.ibm.com>
Reviewed-by: Fam Zheng <famz@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Stefan Hajnoczi <stefanha@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Michael S. Tsirkin <mst@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Michael S. Tsirkin <mst@redhat.com>