net/smc: fix fastopen for non-blocking connect()

FASTOPEN does not work with SMC-sockets. Since SMC allows fallback to
TCP native during connection start, the FASTOPEN setsockopts trigger
this fallback, if the SMC-socket is still in state SMC_INIT.
But if a FASTOPEN setsockopt is called after a non-blocking connect(),
this is broken, and fallback does not make sense.
This change complements
commit cd206360 ("net/smc: avoid fallback in case of non-blocking connect")
and fixes the syzbot reported problem "WARNING in smc_unhash_sk".

Reported-by:  <syzbot+8488cc4cf1c9e09b8b86@syzkaller.appspotmail.com>
Fixes: e1bbdd57 ("net/smc: reduce sock_put() for fallback sockets")
Signed-off-by: Ursula Braun <ubraun@linux.ibm.com>
Signed-off-by: Karsten Graul <kgraul@linux.ibm.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>