net/smc: avoid fallback in case of non-blocking connect

FASTOPEN is not possible with SMC. sendmsg() with msg_flag MSG_FASTOPEN
triggers a fallback to TCP if the socket is in state SMC_INIT.
But if a nonblocking connect is already started, fallback to TCP
is no longer possible, even though the socket may still be in state
SMC_INIT.
And if a nonblocking connect is already started, a listen() call
does not make sense.

Reported-by:  <syzbot+bd8cc73d665590a1fcad@syzkaller.appspotmail.com>
Fixes: 50717a37 ("net/smc: nonblocking connect rework")
Signed-off-by: Ursula Braun <ubraun@linux.ibm.com>
Signed-off-by: Karsten Graul <kgraul@linux.ibm.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>