dm: split discards further if target sets max_discard_granularity

The block core (bio_split_discard) will already split discards based
on the 'discard_granularity' and 'max_discard_sectors' queue_limits.
But the DM thin target also needs to ensure that it doesn't receive a
discard that spans a 'max_discard_sectors' boundary.

Introduce a dm_target 'max_discard_granularity' flag that if set will
cause DM core to split discard bios relative to 'max_discard_sectors'.
This treats 'discard_granularity' as a "min_discard_granularity" and
'max_discard_sectors' as a "max_discard_granularity".

Requested-by: Joe Thornber <ejt@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Mike Snitzer <snitzer@kernel.org>