vfio/ccw: replace vfio_init_device with _alloc_

Now that we have a reasonable separation of structs that follow
the subchannel and mdev lifecycles, there's no reason we can't
call the official vfio_alloc_device routine for our private data,
and behave like everyone else.

Signed-off-by: Eric Farman <farman@linux.ibm.com>
Reviewed-by: Kevin Tian <kevin.tian@intel.com>
Reviewed-by: Matthew Rosato <mjrosato@linux.ibm.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20221104142007.1314999-7-farman@linux.ibm.com
Signed-off-by: Alex Williamson <alex.williamson@redhat.com>