9p fid refcount: add p9_fid_get/put wrappers

I was recently reminded that it is not clear that p9_client_clunk()
was actually just decrementing refcount and clunking only when that
reaches zero: make it clear through a set of helpers.

This will also allow instrumenting refcounting better for debugging
next patch

Link: https://lkml.kernel.org/r/20220612085330.1451496-5-asmadeus@codewreck.org
Reviewed-by: Tyler Hicks <tyhicks@linux.microsoft.com>
Reviewed-by: Christian Schoenebeck <linux_oss@crudebyte.com>
Signed-off-by: Dominique Martinet <asmadeus@codewreck.org>