io_uring: get rid of intermediate aux cqe caches

io_post_aux_cqe(), which is used for multishot requests, delays
completions by putting CQEs into a temporary array for the purpose
completion lock/flush batching.

DEFER_TASKRUN doesn't need any locking, so for it we can put completions
directly into the CQ and defer post completion handling with a flag.
That leaves !DEFER_TASKRUN, which is not that interesting / hot for
multishot requests, so have conditional locking with deferred flush
for them.

Signed-off-by: Pavel Begunkov <asml.silence@gmail.com>
Tested-by: Ming Lei <ming.lei@redhat.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/b1d05a81fd27aaa2a07f9860af13059e7ad7a890.1710799188.git.asml.silence@gmail.com
Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>