net/smc: improve smc_conn_create reason codes

Rework smc_conn_create() to always return a valid DECLINE reason code.
This removes the need to translate the return codes on 4 different
places and allows to easily add more detailed return codes by changing
smc_conn_create() only.

Signed-off-by: Karsten Graul <kgraul@linux.ibm.com>
Signed-off-by: Ursula Braun <ubraun@linux.ibm.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>