net/smc: improve smc_listen_work reason codes

Rework smc_listen_work() to provide improved reason codes when an
SMC connection is declined. This allows better debugging on user side.
This also adds 3 more detailed reason codes in smc_clc.h to indicate
what type of device was not found (ism or rdma or both), or if ism
cannot talk to the peer.

Signed-off-by: Karsten Graul <kgraul@linux.ibm.com>
Signed-off-by: Ursula Braun <ubraun@linux.ibm.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>