nexthop: Factor out neighbor validity check

For legacy nexthops, there is fib_good_nh() to check the neighbor validity.
In order to make the nexthop object code more similar to the legacy nexthop
code, factor out the nexthop object neighbor validity check into its own
function.

Signed-off-by: Ido Schimmel <idosch@nvidia.com>
Signed-off-by: Benjamin Poirier <bpoirier@nvidia.com>
Reviewed-by: David Ahern <dsahern@kernel.org>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20230719-nh_select-v2-2-04383e89f868@nvidia.com


Signed-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>