ice: implement lag netdev event handler

The event handler for LAG will create a work item to place on the ordered
workqueue to be processed.

Add in defines for training packets and new recipes to be used by the
switching block of the HW for LAG packet steering.

Update the ice_lag struct to reflect the new processing methodology.

Signed-off-by: Dave Ertman <david.m.ertman@intel.com>
Tested-by: Sujai Buvaneswaran <sujai.buvaneswaran@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Tony Nguyen <anthony.l.nguyen@intel.com>