netfilter: nf_tables: memleak in hw offload abort path

Release flow from the abort path, this is easy to reproduce since
b72920f6 ("netfilter: nftables: counter hardware offload support").
If the preparation phase fails, then the abort path is exercised without
releasing the flow rule object.

unreferenced object 0xffff8881f0fa7700 (size 128):
  comm "nft", pid 1335, jiffies 4294931120 (age 4163.740s)
  hex dump (first 32 bytes):
    08 e4 de 13 82 88 ff ff 98 e4 de 13 82 88 ff ff  ................
    48 e4 de 13 82 88 ff ff 01 00 00 00 00 00 00 00  H...............
  backtrace:
    [<00000000634547e7>] flow_rule_alloc+0x26/0x80
    [<00000000c8426156>] nft_flow_rule_create+0xc9/0x3f0 [nf_tables]
    [<0000000075ff8e46>] nf_tables_newrule+0xc79/0x10a0 [nf_tables]
    [<00000000ba65e40e>] nfnetlink_rcv_batch+0xaac/0xf90 [nfnetlink]
    [<00000000505c614a>] nfnetlink_rcv+0x1bb/0x1f0 [nfnetlink]
    [<00000000eb78e1fe>] netlink_unicast+0x34b/0x480
    [<00000000a8f72c94>] netlink_sendmsg+0x3af/0x690
    [<000000009cb1ddf4>] sock_sendmsg+0x96/0xa0
    [<0000000039d06e44>] ____sys_sendmsg+0x3fe/0x440
    [<00000000137e82ca>] ___sys_sendmsg+0xd8/0x140
    [<000000000c6bf6a6>] __sys_sendmsg+0xb3/0x130
    [<0000000043bd6268>] do_syscall_64+0x40/0xb0
    [<00000000afdebc2d>] entry_SYSCALL_64_after_hwframe+0x44/0xae

Remove flow rule release from the offload commit path, otherwise error
from the offload commit phase might trigger a double-free due to the
execution of the abort_offload -> abort. After this patch, the abort
path takes care of releasing the flow rule.

This fix also needs to move the nft_flow_rule_create() call before the
transaction object is added otherwise the abort path might find a NULL
pointer to the flow rule object for the NFT_CHAIN_HW_OFFLOAD case.

While at it, rename BASIC-like goto tags to slightly more meaningful
names rather than adding a new "err3" tag.

Fixes: 63b48c73 ("netfilter: nf_tables_offload: undo updates if transaction fails")
Signed-off-by: Pablo Neira Ayuso <pablo@netfilter.org>