9p fid refcount: add a 9p_fid_ref tracepoint

This adds a tracepoint event for 9p fid lifecycle tracing: when a fid
is created, its reference count increased/decreased, and freed.
The new 9p_fid_ref tracepoint should help anyone wishing to debug any
fid problem such as missing clunk (destroy) or use-after-free.

Link: https://lkml.kernel.org/r/20220612085330.1451496-6-asmadeus@codewreck.org
Signed-off-by: Dominique Martinet <asmadeus@codewreck.org>