blk-mq: Fix timeout and state order

The block layer had been setting the state to in-flight prior to updating
the timer. This is the wrong order since the timeout handler could observe
the in-flight state with the older timeout, believing the request had
expired when in fact it is just getting started.

Signed-off-by: Keith Busch <keith.busch@intel.com>
Reviewed-by: Hannes Reinecke <hare@suse.com>
Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>