NFSD: WARN when freeing an item still linked via nf_lru

Add a guardrail to prevent freeing memory that is still on a list.
This includes either a dispose list or the LRU list.

This is the sign of a bug, but this class of bugs can be detected
so that they don't endanger system stability, especially while
debugging.

Reviewed-by: Jeff Layton <jlayton@kernel.org>
Signed-off-by: Chuck Lever <chuck.lever@oracle.com>