IB/hfi1: Use the neighbor link down reason only when valid

The 8051 uses a link down reason to inform the driver why the
link went down.  The neighbor planned link down reason code is
only valid when a link down idle message is received by the 8051.
Enhance the explanation on why the link went down.

Reviewed-by: Easwar Hariharan <easwar.hariharan@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Dean Luick <dean.luick@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Doug Ledford <dledford@redhat.com>