nvme: use blk API to remap ref tags for IOs with metadata

Also moved the logic of the remapping to the nvme core driver instead
of implementing it in the nvme pci driver. This way all the other nvme
transport drivers will benefit from it (in case they'll implement metadata
support).

Suggested-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Reviewed-by: Martin K. Petersen <martin.petersen@oracle.com>
Acked-by: Keith Busch <keith.busch@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Max Gurtovoy <maxg@mellanox.com>
Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>