scsi: Do not rely on blk-mq for double completions

The scsi timeout error handling had been directly updating the block
layer's request state to prevent a error handling and a natural completion
from completing the same request twice. Fix this layering violation
by having scsi control the fate of its commands with scsi owned flags
rather than use blk-mq's.

Reviewed-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Signed-off-by: Keith Busch <keith.busch@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>