ALSA: pcm: Allow drivers to set R/W wait time.

Currently ALSA core blocks userspace for about 10 seconds for PCM R/W IO.
This needs to be configurable for modern hardware like DSPs where no
pointer update in milliseconds can indicate terminal DSP errors.

Add a substream variable to set the wait time in ms. This allows userspace
and drivers to recover more quickly from terminal DSP errors.

Signed-off-by: Liam Girdwood <liam.r.girdwood@linux.intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Takashi Iwai <tiwai@suse.de>