bpf: offload: free prog->aux->offload when device disappears

All bpf offload operations should now be under bpf_devs_lock,
it's safe to free and clear the entire offload structure,
not only the netdev pointer.

__bpf_prog_offload_destroy() will no longer be called multiple
times.

Suggested-by: Alexei Starovoitov <ast@kernel.org>
Signed-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <jakub.kicinski@netronome.com>
Reviewed-by: Quentin Monnet <quentin.monnet@netronome.com>
Acked-by: Alexei Starovoitov <ast@kernel.org>
Signed-off-by: Daniel Borkmann <daniel@iogearbox.net>