mlx4_core: Disable memory windows for virtual functions

Do not enable memory windows allocation for virtual functions.

In addition, add a few safety checks, such as:

* Verifying the PD of a new MPT matches the VF.
* Making sure binding memory window isn't enabled for FMRs, and
  that new memory windows are not FMR themselves.

Signed-off-by: Haggai Eran <haggaie@mellanox.com>
Signed-off-by: Shani Michaeli <shanim@mellanox.com>
Signed-off-by: Or Gerlitz <ogerlitz@mellanox.com>
Signed-off-by: Roland Dreier <roland@purestorage.com>