net/smc: use a constant for control message length

The sizeof(struct smc_cdc_msg) evaluates to 48 bytes instead of the
required 44 bytes. We need to use the constant value of
SMC_WR_TX_SIZE to set and check the control message length.

Signed-off-by: Karsten Graul <kgraul@linux.vnet.ibm.com>
Signed-off-by: Ursula Braun <ubraun@linux.vnet.ibm.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>