[media] v4l2-ctrls: fix missing 'read-only' check

VIDIOC_S_CTRL did not check against read-only controls. Even worse, for
controls of type CTRL_CLASS it would cause a kernel oops since those controls
do not have a s_ctrl op.

Signed-off-by: Hans Verkuil <hverkuil@xs4all.nl>
Signed-off-by: Mauro Carvalho Chehab <mchehab@redhat.com>