net/mlx4: Cache line CQE/EQE stride fixes

This commit contains 2 fixes for the 128B CQE/EQE stride feaure.
Wei found that mlx4_QUERY_HCA function marked the wrong capability
in flags (64B CQE/EQE), when CQE/EQE stride feature was enabled.
Also added small fix in initial CQE ownership bit assignment, when CQE
is size is not default 32B.

Fixes: 77507aa2

 (net/mlx4: Enable CQE/EQE stride support)
Signed-off-by: Wei Yang <weiyang@linux.vnet.ibm.com>
Signed-off-by: Ido Shamay <idos@mellanox.com>
Signed-off-by: Amir Vadai <amirv@mellanox.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>