cxgb4: add tc flower match support for TOS

Add support for matching on IP TOS.  Also check on ethtype value
to be either IPv4 or IPv6.

Signed-off-by: Kumar Sanghvi <kumaras@chelsio.com>
Signed-off-by: Rahul Lakkireddy <rahul.lakkireddy@chelsio.com>
Signed-off-by: Ganesh Goudar <ganeshgr@chelsio.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>