e1000e: genericize the update multicast address list

Make updating the multicast address list generic for all families and
enforce the requirement to update the entire multicast table array all at
once instead of piecemeal which causes problems on some parts.

Signed-off-by: Bruce Allan <bruce.w.allan@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Jeff Kirsher <jeffrey.t.kirsher@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>