l2tp: remove ->ref() and ->deref()

The ->ref() and ->deref() callbacks are unused since PPP stopped using
them in ee40fb2e

 ("l2tp: protect sock pointer of struct pppol2tp_session with RCU").

We can thus remove them from struct l2tp_session and drop the do_ref
parameter of l2tp_session_get*().

Signed-off-by: Guillaume Nault <g.nault@alphalink.fr>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>