IB/hfi1: Add RSM rule for user FECN handling

Add a receive side mapping rule to extract expected user packets with
the FECN bit set and place them in an eager buffer.  This will allow
user libraries to recognize that a FECN was sent when using header
suppression and respond appropriately.

Reviewed-by: Dennis Dalessandro <dennis.dalessandro@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Dean Luick <dean.luick@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Doug Ledford <dledford@redhat.com>